My SO told me my breasts look 'deformed'

I have always been proud of my boobs. I always got many compliments on them and thought they were great. Because of quarantine, i don't feel attractive or sexy anymore because i have no reason to dress up and make myself pretty. And it made me realize that even before covid, i always try to 'hide' my boobs because i don't want to be labelled as slutty. So i decided to check out some dresses that have a classy cleavage to feel more confident in showing the body parts i like most about myself. I am currently far away from my SO and was talking to him about this over text. We send nudes to each other and he asked to see the girls so i gladly sent him a pic. His answer was that they look 'deformed' and basically not as pretty as they used too. I am devastated. I cried myself to sleep. I felt every grain of self confidence leave my body. I told him that he doesn't need to worry about my 'deformed' boobs anymore because he will never see them again. I just needed to vent about this because i still feel very sad about this. Am i overreacting? He has reddit as well. I hope he doesn't see this, but if he does: F*CK YOU Edit: hey guys, thank you all so much! I didn't expect that i had to come here and edit this but here i am. I just wanted to say that i am very happy to have found this community and all of your responses mean a lot to me and have helped me to see that i'm not crazy or overreacting. Thank you so much for the support and encouraging words! I am trying to get back to everyone. submitted by /u/churchisforbrunettes to r/TwoXChromosomes [link] [comments]

I have always been proud of my boobs. I always got many compliments on them and thought they were great. Because of quarantine, i don't feel attractive or sexy anymore because i have no reason to dress up and make myself pretty. And it made me realize that even before covid, i always try to 'hide' my boobs because i don't want to be labelled as slutty. So i decided to check out some dresses that have a classy cleavage to feel more confident in showing the body parts i like most about myself. I am currently far away from my SO and was talking to him about this over text. We send nudes to each other and he asked to see the girls so i gladly sent him a pic. His answer was that they look 'deformed' and basically not as pretty as they used too. I am devastated. I cried myself to sleep. I felt every grain of self confidence leave my body. I told him that he doesn't need to worry about my 'deformed' boobs anymore because he will never see them again. I just needed to vent about this because i still feel very sad about this. Am i overreacting? He has reddit as well. I hope he doesn't see this, but if he does: F*CK YOU

Edit: hey guys, thank you all so much! I didn't expect that i had to come here and edit this but here i am. I just wanted to say that i am very happy to have found this community and all of your responses mean a lot to me and have helped me to see that i'm not crazy or overreacting. Thank you so much for the support and encouraging words! I am trying to get back to everyone.

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